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		<title>You have 340,666 minutes left!</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[What will you do with                               your time this year?   FACT: As of January 10, you will have already spent 14,400 minutes of this new year that you&#8217;ll never get back. QUESTION: On a scale of 1-10 (10 being best), how would you rate the value of your 2012 accomplishments so far?  ONE MORE QUESTION: What [...]]]></description>
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<h1 style="text-align: center;"><span style="color: #800000;"><strong>What will you do with </strong></span></h1>
<h6 style="text-align: center;"><span style="color: #800000;"><strong>                              </strong></span></h6>
<h1 style="text-align: center;"><span style="color: #800000;"><strong>your time this year?</strong></span></h1>
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<h1 style="text-align: center;"><strong> </strong></h1>
<p style="text-align: center;"><span style="color: #800000;"><strong>FACT: </strong></span><em>As of January 10, you will have already spent 14,400 minutes of <a href="http://www.halalpiar.com/2011/12/time-indeed-still-marches-on-happy-new-year/"><span style="color: #0000ff;">this new year </span></a>that you&#8217;ll never get back.</em><strong><em> </em><span style="color: #800000;">QUESTION: </span></strong><em>On a scale of 1-10 (10 being best), how would you rate the value of your 2012</em><em> accomplishments so far? </em> <span style="color: #800000;"><strong>ONE MORE QUESTION:</strong></span> <em>What will you do with the remaining 340,666 minutes (511,000 minutes minus 1/3 for sleep) in 2012?</em></p>
<h1 style="text-align: center;"><span style="color: #800000;"><strong>~~~~~~~</strong></span> </h1>
<h6 style="text-align: left;"><strong>                                          </strong></h6>
<p style="text-align: left;"><strong>Can the last question really be answered? </strong>Of course not. How could you possibly know what situations and circumstances will impact your intentions? So maybe intentions are not such a great thing. We&#8217;ve heard, after all, that they pave the road to hell, hmmm? And they&#8217;re kind of like <a href="http://www.halalpiar.com/2010/11/great-expectorations/"><span style="color: #0000ff;">expectations</span></a>, right?</p>
<h3 style="text-align: center;"><span style="color: #800000;"><strong>And don&#8217;t expectations breed disappointment?</strong></span></h3>
<h6 style="text-align: left;"><strong>                                                              </strong></h6>
<p style="text-align: left;"><strong>So where does all this quibbling over semantics actually leave us?</strong> Hopefully . . . (aw, wait a minute, <a href="http://www.halalpiar.com/2011/05/hope-and-expectations/"><span style="color: #0000ff;">isn&#8217;t &#8220;hopefully&#8221; like an intention and expectation <em>combined</em>?</span></a>). Well then, is this an end to planning as we know it? Do we throw the goals out with the posts? (A little pun there for football fans.) Do we stop having objectives to pursue?</p>
<h3 style="text-align: center;"><span style="color: #800000;"><strong>Planning is essential, but it is not a trigger for compulsive pursuit at all costs.</strong></span></h3>
<h6 style="text-align: center;"><strong>                                                </strong></h6>
<p style="text-align: left;"><strong>How do we know this?</strong> Because planning (i.e, goal-setting) has been long proven to be successful only if the process of goal-setting adheres firmly to specific criteria, and one of these is<a href="http://www.halalpiar.com/2008/05/mark-twain-said/"><span style="color: #0000ff;"> flexibility</span></a>. The less flexible, the more stress. The more stress the greater the odds for failure.</p>
<p style="text-align: left;"><strong>There is something to be said </strong>for the thrust and direction of many, if not most, entrepreneurially-spirited engines . . . something that is most succinctly put as &#8220;living for the moment.&#8221; Entrepreneurs instinctively seek immediate gratification and are more <a href="http://www.halalpiar.com/2011/11/biz-alphabet-series-w/"><span style="color: #0000ff;">focused on the &#8220;here and now&#8221; present moment </span></a>than those in other careers.</p>
<p style="text-align: left;"><strong>It&#8217;s that old thing grandpa used to say </strong>about not putting off &#8217;til tomorrow what you can do today. Entrepreneurs are business junkies. They have a powerful need for a quick fix when things start to flounder or deteriorate, or when last week&#8217;s &#8220;high&#8221; begins to wear off. Sound familiar? It&#8217;s true.  Look around. Ask around.   </p>
<p style="text-align: left;"><strong>Small business owners and operators have mostly learned the hard way </strong>&#8211;through trial and error and intuitive &#8220;street smarts&#8221;&#8211; that ongoing quick-fix actions are the only ones that get results, and keep businesses moving forward when the tide is changing or the current is a backwash.</p>
<p style="text-align: left;"><strong>But swimming upstream </strong>for any period of time can be exhausting to say the least, so the idea of taking immediate corrective/adjustment action needs, in reality, to be tapered only with the commitment to take only reasonable risks in the process, and to always imagine the worst case scenario before proceeding.</p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><strong>Try repetitively asking yourself the following question all during any crisis or critical period, hourly if need be:</strong></p>
<h2 style="text-align: center;"><strong><a href="http://www.halalpiar.com/2010/12/entrepreneur-castles-built-on-shifting-sands/"><span style="color: #0000ff;">&#8220;Is what I&#8217;m doing right this very minute </span></a></strong></h2>
<h2 style="text-align: center;"><strong><a href="http://www.halalpiar.com/2010/12/entrepreneur-castles-built-on-shifting-sands/"><span style="color: #0000ff;">leading me to where I want to go?&#8221;</span></a></strong></h2>
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<h3 style="text-align: center;">Make today a GREAT day for someone!</h3>
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		<title>2012 Mission or 20/20 Vision??</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 26 Dec 2011 18:25:05 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Is Your Vision Statement                           A Mission?   Does Your                      Mission Statement   Have Vision?                                                You&#8217;re getting ready for 2012 and you&#8217;re confused? Gee, hard to imagine . . .                                                      Just because the media and politicians tell us the economy is getting better? Just because we&#8217;re looking at a healthcare reform that [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<h1 style="text-align: center;"><span style="color: #800000;"><strong>Is Your Vision Statement </strong></span></h1>
<h6 style="text-align: center;"><span style="color: #800000;"><strong>                          </strong></span></h6>
<h1 style="text-align: center;"><span style="color: #800000;"><strong>A Mission?</strong></span></h1>
<h6 style="text-align: center;"><span style="color: #800000;"><strong> </strong></span></h6>
<h1 style="text-align: center;"><span style="color: #800000;"><strong>Does Your </strong></span></h1>
<h6 style="text-align: center;"><span style="color: #800000;"><strong>                     </strong></span></h6>
<h1 style="text-align: center;"><span style="color: #800000;"><strong>Mission Statement </strong></span></h1>
<h6 style="text-align: center;"><span style="color: #800000;"><strong> </strong></span></h6>
<h1 style="text-align: center;"><span style="color: #800000;"><strong>Have Vision?</strong></span></h1>
<h6 style="text-align: center;">                                              </h6>
<h3 style="text-align: center;"><strong>You&#8217;re getting ready for 2012 and you&#8217;re confused? </strong><strong><em>Gee, hard to imagine . . .</em></strong></h3>
<h6 style="text-align: center;"><span style="color: #800000;"><em>                                                     </em></span></h6>
<p style="text-align: center;"><span style="color: #800000;"><em>Just because the media and politicians tell us the economy is getting better? Just because we&#8217;re looking at a healthcare reform that has absolutely nothing to do with healthcare and everything to do with costing small business more? Just because enemy combatant terrorist situations surface from those we&#8217;re told are not really terrorists, and from circumstances that we&#8217;re assured do not exist? Just because global warming hoaxsters had us running to refrigeration investments? </em></span></p>
<h1 style="text-align: center;"><strong><em>~~~~~~~</em></strong></h1>
<h6 style="text-align: left;"><strong>                                                                                      </strong></h6>
<p style="text-align: left;"><strong>We&#8217;re probably feeling</strong> like confusion is nothing new, right? So why not live with a little more?</p>
<p><strong>Well, here&#8217;s why:</strong> The business you own or manage doesn&#8217;t need to be as misguided and convoluted as politicians and the media. Remember they get paid for creating confusion. Your success depends on keeping things simple.</p>
<p><strong>Keeping things simple</strong> starts with attitude, awareness, and hard work.</p>
<p><strong>First off</strong>, don&#8217;t let anyone tell you to work smarter and not harder. That&#8217;s baloney! Every business success comes from hard work. Next, don&#8217;t let people confuse you about the characteristics and values of Mission and Vision Statements. [No, they are NOT the same!]</p>
<p><strong>A Mission statement</strong> is essentially a declaration of intent, challenge and pursuit. It is your goal statement that clearly and succinctly explains what you plan to accomplish over what specific period of time and by what means. It is action-focused.</p>
<p><strong>And, like every meaningful goal</strong>, your Mission Statement needs t0 be <em>specific, flexible, realistic and have a due date</em>. [Without all four criteria, you've nothing more than a wishlist fantasy!]</p>
<p><strong>A Vision statement</strong> is a summation of where you see your business in 5-10 years. It is a picture you paint in your mind and share with others. <strong>It answers the question:</strong> <em>If you succeed in your mission, where will you be?</em></p>
<p><strong>It&#8217;s a set of words</strong> that best describes what you imagine to be your future state of existence, and how you expect (hope) to be viewed by others: your employees, associates, vendors, customers, markets, industry or profession, and community. It is dream-focused. It&#8217;s primary value is to inspire pursuit of your Mission.</p>
<p><strong>What&#8217;s your Mission for 2012? What&#8217;s your Vision for 2020? </strong></p>
<p><strong>Oh, and in the same fashion</strong> that it helps to start ANY mission with 20/20 vision, it is often most useful to put your 2020 Vision on the table (to keep focused on it) <em>while</em> you develop your 2012 Mission (or while you think up the ways to get where you want to end up).</p>
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<p style="text-align: center;"><span style="color: #0000ff;"><span style="color: #000000;">and</span> <strong><strong></strong></strong></span><a href="http://tbd-consulting.typepad.com/jonena_l_relth/2011/12/t-is-for-trust.html"><span style="color: #0000ff;">“T” IS FOR TRUST</span></a><span style="color: #0000ff;">.<strong> </strong><strong> </strong></span></p>
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<h6><strong><em>                                                                               </em></strong></h6>
<h1 style="text-align: center;"><strong><span style="color: #800000;">EA$Y DOE$ IT ON</span></strong></h1>
<h6 style="text-align: center;"><span style="color: #800000;">                                  </span></h6>
<h1 style="text-align: center;"><strong><span style="color: #800000;">CHRI$TMA$ EXPEN$E$</span> </strong></h1>
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<h1><strong>                                                                       </strong></h1>
<p><strong>“Down in Onunderoverup”? Huh? Oh: Down and in <em>. . .</em></strong><em> Revenues and profits are <strong>down</strong>. It’s the worst holiday shopping season <strong>in</strong> memory.</em> <strong>In and on <em>. . .</em></strong><em> Brick and mortar businesses are getting killed by the <strong>in</strong>vasion of <strong>on</strong>line businesses.</em> <strong>On, under, and over <em>. . . </em></strong><em><strong>On</strong>line businesses are being <strong>under</strong>cut by <strong>over</strong>kill retail sales events.</em> <strong>Up<em> . . .</em></strong><em>C’mon folks, let’s own <strong>up</strong> to the reality that this is a bite-the-bullet Christmas for probably two-thirds of all Americans. </em></p></blockquote>
<h2 style="text-align: center;"><span style="color: #800000;"> ~~~~~~~</span></h2>
<p style="text-align: center;"><span style="color: #000000;"><strong>                                                               </strong></span></p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><span style="color: #000000;"><strong>IF — like many others this year</strong> </span>who don’t work for do-nothing, free-spending government agencies or bailed-out corporate giants — <em>IF </em>you happen to be having a tighter Christmas ahead than those you’ve left behind, you may want to consider three points:</p>
<ul>
<li><strong>Unless you <em>choose</em> for it to be</strong> (<a href="http://www.halalpiar.com/2009/04/masochistic-entrepreneurs/"><span style="color: #0000ff;">behavior IS a choice</span></a>), you need not think that it’s corny, hokey, old-fashioned, ancient, not P.C., or “yeah, so?” (<a href="http://www.halalpiar.com/2010/09/thoughts-are-things/"><span style="color: #0000ff;">Thoughts are things</span></a>!), to consider this first point&#8230;</li>
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<h1><strong><span style="color: #800000;">1) </span></strong></h1>
<h3><strong><span style="color: #800000;"><em>Here’s how it goes:</em> choose for a minute or two to think that Christmas is not all about you, except as a a joyful celebrant.</span></strong></h3>
<p style="text-align: left; padding-left: 30px;"><strong>While you’re staring at your screen right now</strong>, dismantle the whole holiday stress clog-up in your brain (<a href="http://www.halalpiar.com/2009/05/4-steps-in-one-minute-zero-stress/"><span style="color: #0000ff;">take some deep breaths</span></a>) so you can step back with a fresh perspective and see Christmas more realistically, for what it <em>is</em>: the celebration of the birth of Christ.</p>
<ul>
<li>
<div style="text-align: left;"><strong>Okay</strong>, now, flying on the shirttails of the first point, comes this second point to think on&#8230;</div>
</li>
</ul>
<h1><strong><span style="color: #800000;">2) </span></strong></h1>
<h3><strong><span style="color: #800000;"><em>How have you chosen</em> to let others (and your self) set you up over your lifetime to choose over-the-top artificial representations of this joyful event to bump the real thing off into the wings from stage center?</span></strong></h3>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><strong>How</strong> have you become victimized by decades of deep and hard-hitting commercialism? </p>
<ul>
<li>
<div style="text-align: left;"><strong>Have all those sales</strong>, ads, commercials, endorsements, emails, txtmsgs, and “perfect family with perfect dog in their perfect home setting” images left you with <a href="http://www.halalpiar.com/2010/06/throwing-good-money-after-bad/"><span style="color: #0000ff;">the guilties </span></a>because you can’t afford that surprise diamond or vacation gift for your spouse this year? Because the kids will have to settle for the cheap iPod and a slightly used Wii? Just one chew-bone and a single squeaky toy for Rufus?</div>
</li>
</ul>
<h1><strong><span style="color: #800000;">3) </span></strong></h1>
<h3><strong><span style="color: #800000;"><em>Welcome to reality</em>. It’s the same place that many (probably the majority) of your customers have been quietly and more steadily inhabiting over the last couple of years.</span></strong></h3>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><strong>It’s not just you.</strong> It’s not just them. It’s the vast majority of the world that’s actively downsizing 2011 Christmas gift-giving and expenses.</p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><strong>Well, realizing that you’re not alone</strong> sometimes serves to soften the edge. You should, by the way, also know that I am not a minister of any kind, nor have I any religious drums to beat . . . what then?</p>
<blockquote style="padding-left: 30px;">
<h2><strong>It’s </strong><em><a href="http://www.halalpiar.com/2009/12/humbug-on-holidaysmerry-christmas/"><span style="color: #0000ff;">Christmas</span></a></em><span style="color: #0000ff;"><em>!</em></span><em> </em></h2>
<p><strong>Skimpy perhaps </strong>by past life standards, but this is <em>this</em> life, here and now.</p>
<h2><strong><span style="color: #800000;"><strong>We only go around in life once, and we’re in it together:</strong></span></strong></h2>
<p><strong>. . . business owners, partners, managers, employees, suppliers, investors, service and sales professionals, referrers,<em> AND customers! </em></strong></p></blockquote>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><strong>In a time of year that accents good will</strong>, “blame” is a nonproductive misfit. In a time of life that businesses struggle with the economy, fixing the economy becomes Job One for businesses.</p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><strong>What can <em>yours</em> do?</strong> What can <em>you</em> do? What can you do <em>now</em>,<em> tonight, tomorrow</em>, to take a major step toward righting <em>your</em> ship?</p>
<h6 style="padding-left: 30px;">                                                                </h6>
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<p style="text-align: center; padding-left: 30px;">Thanks for visiting. Go for your goals! God Bless You.</p>
<p style="text-align: center; padding-left: 30px;"><em>“The price of freedom is eternal vigilance!”</em> [Thomas Jefferson]</p>
<h3 style="text-align: center; padding-left: 30px;"><em><span style="color: #800000;"><strong>Make today a GREAT day for someone!</strong></span></em></h3>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 20 Dec 2011 01:10:13 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Hal Alpiar</dc:creator>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p style="text-align: left;"><em><span style="color: #000000;">Updated From the Best of Hal&#8217;s Christmastime Business Posts . . . </span></em></p>
<h6 style="text-align: left;"><em><span style="color: #000000;">                                                              </span></em></h6>
<h1 style="text-align: center;"><strong><span style="color: #800000;">The quickest fix for</span></strong></h1>
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<h6 style="text-align: center;"><strong><span style="color: #800000;"><em>                              </em></span></strong></h6>
<h1 style="text-align: center;"><strong><span style="color: #800000;"><em>“Nuttin’s Happenin’”</em></span></strong></h1>
<h6 style="text-align: center;"><strong><span style="color: #800000;">                      </span></strong></h6>
<h1 style="text-align: center;"><strong><span style="color: #800000;">. . . is to ACT NOW!</span></strong></h1>
<h6 style="text-align: center;"><span style="color: #800000;">                                  </span></h6>
<h2 style="text-align: center;"><span style="color: #800000;">NOW, while we’re on the cusp of</span></h2>
<h2 style="text-align: center;"><span style="color: #800000;">The Great American Work Slowdown.</span></h2>
<p style="text-align: center;"><em><strong><span style="color: #800000;"> </span></strong></em></p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><em><strong><span style="color: #800000;">Christmas is Sunday. </span></strong></em><em>Everyone (except for rambunctious entrepreneurs–there’s some other kind?) is moving more slowly at work. </em><em>The rank and file are increasingly preoccupied with office and neighborhood parties. </em></p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><em><span style="color: #800000;"><strong>Could this be true?</strong> </span>Is it just my imagination? </em><em>Are you grinning nervously at that thought or at what I might be tossing your way in the next couple of paragraphs? </em></p>
<h6 style="text-align: center;"><em> </em></h6>
<p><strong>Well, if you’re in that “rambunctious” crowd</strong> I mentioned, you probably wait ’til the last minute to shop, hate to waste time making the festive rounds but find that a couple of stiff drinks help make those swashbuckling business status-climbers and oozy neighbors a little more tolerable . . . and it’s all good practice leading up to that big week of dysfunctional family gift-giving gatherings!</p>
<h2 style="text-align: center;"><strong><span style="color: #800000;">Put your mouse down for a nap.</span></strong></h2>
<h6><strong>                                             </strong></h6>
<p><strong>Get up</strong> from your desk or work station or laptop, and <strong>stop reading this blog</strong> (I trust you that you’ll come back). Now, <strong>DO SOME thing. ANY thing! </strong>It doesn’t matter what you do. What matters is that you do SOMEthing.</p>
<p><strong>Take a walk around the block</strong>. Eat a cookie. Take a bathroom break. Turn the music on or up. Draw a picture. Get away from the monitor and keyboard and <a href="http://www.halalpiar.com/2009/05/4-steps-in-one-minute-zero-stress/"><span style="color: #0000ff;">take some deep breaths</span></a>. Shake your head like a wet dog. Clap or briskly rub your hands together. Take a slug of cold water.</p>
<p><strong>Appreciate</strong> that by breaking your concentration, you are also breaking some element or accumulation of stress.</p>
<p><strong>Don’t quit yet</strong>. Don’t rush back to the screen. Gently close your eyes and take ten seconds to massage your temples or the back of your neck (counter-clockwise stimulates more blood flow).</p>
<p><strong>Pick up a pen or pencil</strong> (you DO still have one?) and a piece of scrap paper. Write or draw or diagram the first thing that comes into your mind . . . like a <a href="http://www.halalpiar.com/2010/09/branding-brevity/"><span style="color: #0000ff;">creative branding theme exercise</span></a>!</p>
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<h2><em><strong>It absolutely doesn’t matter</strong> what you record (and no one but you will ever see it anyway). </em></h2>
<h2><em>Go ahead. I’ll wait. ………. Good! </em></h2>
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<p><strong>Next,</strong> draw or write or diagram the first thought you have about something you can do at 9 o’clock tomorrow morning to pump up or booster-shot some part of your business into action <em>right away</em>.</p>
<p><strong>Maybe</strong> it’s a new direction. Maybe it’s solving a nagging problem. Or it’s reviewing reports or articles you’ve been shoveling around, or checking websites you’ve been intending to visit, or having coffee with the new (or oldest) employee (or supplier/vendor/sales rep) and <em>listening</em>?</p>
<p><strong>Perhaps</strong> you haven’t made enough time lately to initiate collection of customer feedback?</p>
<p><strong>No matter how small a step,</strong> just make it an ACTION step. <a href="http://www.halalpiar.com/2010/09/action-attitude/"><span style="color: #0000ff;">SOME action always beats NO action!</span></a> I hear from blog visitors all the time that <em>success comes from having a bias to action</em>. <strong>Do you?</strong></p>
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<p style="text-align: center;">Thanks for visiting. Go for your goals! God Bless You.</p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><em>“The price of freedom is eternal vigilance!”</em> [Thomas Jefferson]</p>
<h3 style="text-align: center;"><span style="color: #800000;"><em><strong>Make today a GREAT day for someone!</strong></em></span></h3>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 15 Dec 2011 02:19:22 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Hal Alpiar</dc:creator>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<h1 style="text-align: center;"><span style="color: #800000;"><strong><em>Today&#8217;s the day</em></strong></span></h1>
<h6 style="text-align: center;"><span style="color: #800000;"><strong><em>                             </em></strong></span></h6>
<h1 style="text-align: center;"><span style="color: #800000;"><strong><em>to overhaul </em></strong></span></h1>
<h6 style="text-align: center;"><span style="color: #800000;"><strong><em>                                   </em></strong></span></h6>
<h1 style="text-align: center;"><span style="color: #800000;"><strong><em>your workspace!</em></strong></span></h1>
<h1 style="text-align: center;"><span style="color: #800000;"><strong><em></em></strong></span> </h1>
<h6 style="text-align: left;"><strong> </strong></h6>
<h3 style="text-align: center;"><strong>Changing your daily routine</strong> can be just as stress-relieving as taking some time off.</h3>
<h6 style="text-align: left;"><strong>                                                             </strong></h6>
<p style="text-align: left;"><strong>I&#8217;m not suggesting</strong> that you abandon holiday relax time to keep working, but <a href="http://www.halalpiar.com/2008/11/relax-yes-but-its-also-a-great-time-to-get-work-done/"><span style="color: #0000ff;">when the rest of your business universe slows down for Christmas and Hanukkah</span></a>, it&#8217;s a great opportunity to clean up, dress up, reorganize, reassess, take inventory, take stock, plan, and <a href="http://www.halalpiar.com/2011/12/going-into-2012/"><span style="color: #0000ff;">set goals</span></a>.</p>
<p style="text-align: left;"><strong>Rattle your own cage! Start by c</strong>reating a better workspace. Move furniture and tools. Open drawers and clean out old stuff. File away work that&#8217;s done. Sort through magazines and newsletters; sticky-note items you want to read and toss the rest.  Reassess your lighting (and fixture bulb replacement status).<a href="http://www.halalpiar.com/2011/06/stop-getting-trashed/"><span style="color: #0000ff;"> Is clutter off your floor?</span></a></p>
<p style="text-align: left;"><strong>Can you actually get into </strong>storage areas without climbing and sucking in your gut to squeeze through? Are the backs of shelves and closets in easy reach or does access pose the need for Olympic prowess? Are your alarm systems all in good working order? Are window coverings and locks in decent shape?</p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><strong>Are too many </strong>door/truck/car keys, or computer codes/user-names/passwords floating around?</p>
<p style="text-align: left;"><strong>Does your waiting area match </strong>the level of professionalism you want to project? Dead bugs in ceiling light fixtures and dead or dying plants <em></em>do not <a href="http://http://www.halalpiar.com/2010/10/stupid-business/"><span style="color: #0000ff;">inspire much sense of confidence </span></a>in professional practices, maintenance or medical supply businesses, florists, landscapers, or any kind of healthcare, food or food service businesses, among others. </p>
<p style="text-align: left;"><strong>The dead bug/dead plant solutions</strong>, by the way, are not to be nurturing <em>live</em> bugs or <em>plastic</em> plants, both of which speak equally negative to your <a href="http://www.halalpiar.com/2011/09/keeping-up-appearances/"><span style="color: #0000ff;">attitude and reputation</span></a>. Go with <em>no</em> bugs, and if you can&#8217;t maintain plants to be permanently healthy, go with <em>no</em> plants as well! And the same goes for beat up outdated magazines!</p>
<p style="text-align: left;"><strong>If you think this is stupidly basic input</strong>, start to notice what you see when you visit other businesses. How many restaurants and coffee shops have you left with indigestion after facing mounted TV screens locked onto news channels? When you&#8217;re done cleaning up and reorganizing outside your self, step inside for a few overhauls!</p>
<h3 style="text-align: center;"><span style="color: #800000;">You will never get this chance or this day back again. </span></h3>
<h3 style="text-align: center;"><span style="color: #800000;">Make the most of your opportunities.</span></h3>
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<h2 style="text-align: center;"><span style="color: #800000;"><em>Open  Minds  Open  Doors</em> </span></h2>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 06 Nov 2011 19:14:12 +0000</pubDate>
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<h1 style="text-align: center;"><strong><em> </em></strong><span style="color: #800000;"><strong>“O”…ORGANIZATION</strong> </span></h1>
<h2 style="text-align: center;"><strong> </strong></h2>
<p style="text-align: left; padding-left: 30px;"><em><strong>It was going to be &#8220;O&#8221; for &#8220;Operations&#8221;</strong> but a few years back the world&#8217;s surgeons decided that &#8220;Procedures&#8221; would be a gentler, less-threatening sounding  word to use in describing what happens when they take a scalpel to your body.  </em><em><strong>And as businesses became more specialized</strong>, &#8220;Operations&#8221; began to dissolve from usage in the business community too.  <strong>So</strong></em><em><strong> with all that phasing out activity</strong>, I came back to one of the most important multi-purpose &#8220;O&#8221; words for life and small business success:</em> ORGANIZATION.</p>
<h2 style="text-align: center;"><span style="color: #800000;"><strong>~~~~~~~</strong></span></h2>
<p><span style="color: #800000;"><strong>There are 30 million of us </strong></span>(small business owners and entrepreneurs) kicking around out there, somewhere between Hawaii, Florida, Maine, and Alaska (Whew! A lot of kicking!), and &#8211;<a href="http://www.halalpiar.com/2011/06/counterclockwise-creativity/"><span style="color: #0000ff;">artistic, creative types</span></a> not withstanding&#8211; those among us with the strongest sense of organization will generally prevail in the success arena.</p>
<p><span style="color: #800000;"><strong>&#8220;Organization&#8221;</strong></span> is both the dynamics of the people you&#8217;re involved with &#8212; what&#8217;s the business &#8220;chemistry&#8221;?&#8211; AND how effective are your planning and doing (action) skills? &#8220;Team chemistry&#8221; wins in sports (Just re-live World Series Game 6 a few days ago), but it also &#8211;like people and task organizing skills&#8211; wins in business.</p>
<p><span style="color: #800000;"><strong>There are of course</strong></span>, entire books, courses, and training programs devoted to OD (Organizational Development), so don&#8217;t expect a 700-word crash course here, but you can expect to have your cage rattled. After all, who else is going to risk being in your face and telling you to<a href="http://www.halalpiar.com/2011/07/7783/"><span style="color: #0000ff;"> get your act together better </span></a>than you have been? Right. Read on.</p>
<p><span style="color: #800000;"><strong>Now, most of what I do </strong></span>is write, design, create, sell, email, meet, and talk on the phone, so I&#8217;m not exactly the world&#8217;s most organized guy, but &#8211;thanks to Kathy&#8211; most all of the organizational chores associated with running a business are taken care of by her capable hands and organized brain. She actually excels at it. (Thank heaven!)</p>
<p><span style="color: #800000;"><strong>So one important rule of thumb </strong></span>is that if organization skills escape you, or you don&#8217;t want to justify the time it takes to sort out, prioritize, plan, and execute tasks,<a href="http://www.halalpiar.com/2011/08/whos-your-glue/"><span style="color: #0000ff;"> find someone you can trust and rely on </span></a>(almost always, by the way, a spouse, because no one else really shares your values) to do the scheduling, paperwork, computer tasks, etc.</p>
<p><span style="color: #800000;"><strong>And since you probably have two thumbs</strong></span>, another important rule is to give up one hour every Monday to meet with your organization person or team to review progress and problems, and get the ducks in a row. (Monday, because issues can be dealt with during the week; issues raised on Thursday or Friday never get done). </p>
<p><span style="color: #800000;"><strong>I read somewhere that a famous sales guru</strong> </span>I&#8217;ve always admired, made a dumb statement. He said It&#8217;s not time you need to manage; it&#8217;s your attitude. I understand the intent, but in reality, all entrepreneurs, by definition, have a positive attitude. Managing time is the challenge because we have only a limited amount of it available.</p>
<p><span style="color: #800000;"><strong>Not to belabor the point</strong></span>, but <a href="http://www.halalpiar.com/2011/06/you-have-86400-seconds/"><span style="color: #0000ff;">there are just so many seconds in a minute, so many minutes in an hour</span></a>, so many hours in a day, so many days in a week, so many weeks in a month, so many months in a year . . . and just so many years in a lifetime, assuming you&#8217;re not from outer space just because you might act it! (Sorry, couldn&#8217;t resist.) </p>
<p><span style="color: #800000;"><strong>There are at least 3 zillion </strong></span>magic formulas for managing your emails. If you limit phone call message returns from 11:30am until noon, and from 4:30pm until 5pm, you will be more productive. People do not want to talk too much when they&#8217;re thinking about lunch or heading home.</p>
<p><span style="color: #800000;"><strong>When you make to-do lists</strong></span>, <a href="http://http://www.halalpiar.com/2008/09/calling-all-corporate-types-entrepreneurs-homemakers-and-writers-especially-writers/"><span style="color: #0000ff;">date them and chunk them up into small parts of big tasks</span></a>. Prioritize item urgency. Cross the done deeds off with a highlighter so you can look back to see what was accomplished. If you really must use other than pen and pad because you are laptop or handheld-addicted, it&#8217;s not great, but better than nothing.</p>
<p><span style="color: #800000;"><strong>In short</strong></span>, experiment, but do whatever works best for you. Whatever you do&#8211; don&#8217;t ignore or avoid focusing on the getting-ready-to-act parts of your business before you charge headlong into them. Not being organized is a <a href="http://www.halalpiar.com/2011/09/on-the-comeback-trail/"><span style="color: #0000ff;">common entrepreneurial ailment that can crush a venture </span></a>before it ever gets off the ground. Ready? Set? Go!</p>
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<h2 style="text-align: center;"><span style="color: #800000;"><strong><em>Open  Minds  Open  Doors</em> </strong></span></h2>
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<h3 style="text-align: center;"><strong> </strong>Make today a GREAT day for someone!</h3>
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		<dc:creator>Hal Alpiar</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[You&#8217;re thinkin&#8217; maybe                                   2012 will be better?                                                             If you&#8217;re thinking 2012 will be better, and you&#8217;ve decided to wait until the new year to kick into gear, you lose! That&#8217;s like saying you&#8217;re gonna quit smoking (drinking, doing drugs, eating so much) for the new year. What&#8217;s happened to &#8220;now&#8221;? The &#8220;new [...]]]></description>
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<h6 style="text-align: center;"><span style="color: #800000;"><strong>                                  </strong></span></h6>
<h1 style="text-align: center;"><span style="color: #800000;"><strong>2012 will be better?</strong></span></h1>
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<p style="text-align: left;"><strong>If you&#8217;re thinking 2012 will be better</strong>, and you&#8217;ve decided to wait until the new year to kick into gear, you lose! That&#8217;s like saying you&#8217;re gonna quit smoking (drinking, doing drugs, eating so much) for the new year.</p>
<p style="text-align: left;"><strong>What&#8217;s happened to &#8220;now&#8221;? </strong>The &#8220;new year&#8221;? In case you haven&#8217;t noticed, it&#8217;s not 2012 yet! Or, perhaps you&#8217;re planning to be sick  for Christmas so you can avoid another dysfunctional family gathering?</p>
<p style="text-align: left;"><strong>Maybe you&#8217;re a big <a href="http://www.halalpiar.com/2011/08/listen-up-white-house-fans/"><span style="color: #0000ff;">White House fan </span></a></strong>and figure &#8211;since 2009, 2010, and 2011 have&#8217;nt exactly been big economic rebound years&#8211; that 2012 will be Obama&#8217;s year of small business enlightenment? Don&#8217;t hold your breath. He&#8217;s proven he prefers union-vote paybacks and government splurging over championing the entrepreneurial spirit that built America.  </p>
<p style="text-align: left;"><strong>He prefers sharing the money you work hard for </strong>with those who choose their flat screen TVs and living room sofas over legitimate employment. Hey&#8211; free food, free medical care, free education, free cash&#8211; who can fault them? <a href="http://www.halalpiar.com/2011/03/re-invent-yourself/"><span style="color: #0000ff;">Ain&#8217;t Socialism wonderful?</span></a></p>
<p style="text-align: left;"><strong>So if you&#8217;ve worked hard all your life </strong>and earn a respectable living, pay your bills, give to charity, and are struggling to make ends meet with your business, don&#8217;t expect any sudden shifts in allegiance or respect or support from those in control. <a href="http://www.halalpiar.com/2011/08/8pm-sept-7th/"><span style="color: #0000ff;">You&#8217;re just one of 30 million</span></a>.</p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><strong><em>Here&#8217;s the bottom line: </em></strong></p>
<h2 style="text-align: center;"><strong><span style="color: #800000;">Your Fairy Godmother </span></strong></h2>
<h2 style="text-align: center;"><strong><span style="color: #800000;">is not on the way. </span></strong></h2>
<p style="text-align: center;"><em><span style="color: #800000;">Yes, the treuth hurts. Sorry about that.</span></em></p>
<p style="text-align: left;"><strong>Just in case you were keeping a low profile </strong>in your business with the <a href="http://www.halalpiar.com/2011/05/hope-and-expectations/"><span style="color: #0000ff;">hope and expectations </span></a>that a more super-sized, more charged-up environment and marketplace is on the way, smack yourself along side the head, take a long hard look in the mirror and measure yourself up against these 5 steps</p>
<h2 style="text-align: left;"><span style="color: #800000;"> <strong>. . . 5 things you need to do: </strong></span></h2>
<h3 style="text-align: left; padding-left: 30px;"><span style="color: #800000;"><strong>1.  Something instead of nothing.</strong></span> (In business and personal development, some action always beats no action!)</h3>
<h3 style="text-align: left; padding-left: 30px;"><span style="color: #800000;"><strong>2.  Stop choosing </strong><a href="http://www.halalpiar.com/2011/09/excuses-excuses-excuses/"><span style="color: #0000ff;">excuses</span></a><strong> because you&#8217;re lazy.</strong></span> Waiting until the new year (or Christmas!) to jumpstart your sluggish enterprise is an excuse. Surprise yourself . . . start tonight or first thing tomorrow morning.</h3>
<h3 style="text-align: left; padding-left: 30px;"><span style="color: #800000;"><strong>3.  Stop telling all those who work with you </strong></span>(employees, partners, family members, investors, referrers, suppliers, community members) about all the great promise &#8220;in store&#8221; for next year. Instead step it up now. Now.</h3>
<h3 style="text-align: left; padding-left: 30px;"><span style="color: #800000;"><strong>4.  Put away the fantasyland thinking </strong></span>that you&#8217;ve used to convince yourself that you have time because nthere&#8217;s all the rest of October, and all of November and December to plan and get ready for some 2012 launches.</h3>
<h3 style="text-align: left; padding-left: 30px;"><span style="color: #800000;"><strong>5.  Realize that even with &#8211;prayfully&#8211; a new administration </strong></span>in Washington to be elected on November 6, 2012, it won&#8217;t have any authority until January 2013. And it will likely take another 2-3 years to UN-do the mess Mr. O has put us all in. If your business is hurting now, it won&#8217;t survive another year or two, or three, of <a href="http://www.halalpiar.com/2011/09/promises-promises-promises/"><span style="color: #0000ff;">empty promises</span></a>.</h3>
<h6 style="text-align: left;"><strong>                                                                      </strong></h6>
<p style="text-align: left;"><strong>You really CAN walk the talk, you know</strong>. You&#8217;ve done it to get this far. It&#8217;s all a matter of choice. If you think it&#8217;s too hard, it will be. THAT is a choice as well. Choose to make it easy. Choose to make your business work NOW, and imagine how great it will be <a href="http://www.halalpiar.com/2011/08/leadershipresponsiveness/"><span style="color: #0000ff;">when we have national leadership </span></a>that appreciates and respects small business!</p>
<h2 style="text-align: center;"><span style="color: #333399;"><em>~~~~~~~</em></span></h2>
<p style="text-align: center;"><span style="color: #800000;"><em><strong>Footnote:</strong> If you think this is a &#8220;lecture,&#8221; you are either too far gone to see the value of what&#8217;s represented, and probably shouldn&#8217;t be surfing blogs looking for inspiration that you won&#8217;t follow through with anyway, OR you have needed a good swift kick in the butt . . . I hope this served the purpose. Remember what your grandpa (and Thomas Jefferson) said about not putting off &#8217;til tomorrow what you can do today? </em>     </span>                         </p>
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<h2 style="text-align: left;"><span style="color: #000000;"><em>If I had my life to live over, I&#8217;d dare to make more mistakes next time. I&#8217;d <a href="http://www.halalpiar.com/2009/05/4-steps-in-one-minute-zero-stress/"><span style="color: #0000ff;">relax</span></a>. I would limber up. I would be <a href="http://www.halalpiar.com/2011/02/got-bilk-hahahahahahahahahaha/"><span style="color: #0000ff;">sillier</span></a> than I have been this trip. I would take fewer things seriously. </em></span></h2>
<h2 style="text-align: left;"><span style="color: #000000;"><em>I would take more chances. I would take more trips. I would climb more mountains and swim more rivers. I would eat more ice cream and less beans. </em></span></h2>
<h2 style="text-align: left;"><span style="color: #000000;"><em>I would perhaps have more actual <a href="http://www.halalpiar.com/2011/06/happiness-wins/"><span style="color: #0000ff;">troubles</span></a>, but I&#8217;d have fewer imaginary ones.</em></span></h2>
<h2 style="text-align: left;"><span style="color: #000000;"><em>You see, I&#8217;m one of those people who live sensibly and sanely hour after hour, day after day. Oh, I&#8217;ve had my moments and <a href="http://www.halalpiar.com/2008/06/reality-therapy-2-sides-to-the-coin/"><span style="color: #0000ff;">if I had to do it over again</span></a>, I&#8217;d have more of them. In fact, I&#8217;d try to have nothing else. Just moments, one after another, instead of living so many years ahead of each day. </em></span></h2>
<h2 style="text-align: left;"><span style="color: #000000;"><em>I&#8217;ve been one of those persons who never goes anywhere without a thermometer, a hot water bottle, a raincoat, and a parachute. If I had to do it over again, I would travel lighter than I have.</em></span></h2>
<h2 style="text-align: left;"><span style="color: #000000;"><em>If I had my life to <a href="http://www.halalpiar.com/2011/06/i-almost-died/"><span style="color: #0000ff;">live over</span></a>, I would start barefoot earlier in the spring, and stay that way later in the fall. I would go to more <a href="http://www.halalpiar.com/2010/06/married-to-your-business/"><span style="color: #0000ff;">dances</span></a>. I would ride more merry-go-rounds. I would pick more daisies.&#8221;</em></span></h2>
<h6 style="text-align: right;"><strong><span style="color: #800000;">    </span></strong></h6>
<h3 style="text-align: right;"><strong><span style="color: #800000;">&#8211; Nadine Stair, 85 years old (in 1968), Louisville, Kentucky</span></strong></h3>
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		<title>NO PLAN TO PLAN?</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 09 Aug 2011 01:37:32 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Hal Alpiar</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[What Makes You Think                                             You Can Wing It?    Farmers, carpenters, doctors, lawyers, firefighters, pilots, seamstresses, stylists, realtors, even Cub Scouts do it.                                                                    So what makes you think that you can wing it? Now I&#8217;m not talking any hundred-page document with 37 pull-out spreadsheets and an annotated bibliography featuring a gazillion itemized resources. Who cares? I&#8217;m [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<h1 style="text-align: center;"><strong><span style="color: #800000;">What Makes You Think </span></strong></h1>
<h6 style="text-align: center;"><span style="color: #800000;">                                            </span></h6>
<h1 style="text-align: center;"><strong><span style="color: #800000;">You Can Wing It?</span></strong></h1>
<h1 style="text-align: center;"><span style="color: #800000;"> </span></h1>
<p style="text-align: center;"><span style="color: #800000;"> </span><em><span style="color: #000000;">Farmers, carpenters, doctors, lawyers, firefighters, pilots, seamstresses, stylists, realtors, even Cub Scouts do it. </span></em></p>
<h6><strong><span style="color: #000000;">                                                                   </span></strong></h6>
<p><strong><span style="color: #000000;">So what makes you think that <em>you</em> can wing it?</span></strong> Now I&#8217;m not talking any hundred-page document with 37 pull-out spreadsheets and an annotated bibliography featuring a gazillion itemized resources. Who cares? I&#8217;m talking about an Entrepreneurial Action Plan. </p>
<h6>                                                          </h6>
<h3 style="padding-left: 30px;"><strong>Yes a plan of any kind needs a goal.</strong></h3>
<h6 style="padding-left: 30px;"><strong>                                                       </strong></h6>
<p><strong>And that goal has to be realistic and specific and flexible and due-dated</strong>. If it&#8217;s not <em>all four </em>of those criteria, it&#8217;s not a goal, it&#8217;s a wish. Wishing may work in Disneyland, but business success comes from taking action. <a href="http://www.halalpiar.com/2010/08/chasing-business-dreams/"><span style="color: #0000ff;">Taking action without a goal-based action plan is like trying to control a rudderless ship in a storm</span>.</a></p>
<h6>                                                                      </h6>
<h3 style="padding-left: 30px;"><strong>Your Entrepreneurial Action Plan</strong></h3>
<h6><strong>                                                                   </strong></h6>
<p><strong>Like any good news release, your Action Plan must answer the questions:</strong> Who? What? When? Where? Why? and How? And be realistic, specific, flexible and due-dated. It&#8217;s always a worthy endeavor to include a <a href="http://www.halalpiar.com/2010/05/visions-and-missions-and-thrusts-oh-boy/"><span style="color: #0000ff;">Mission Statement and a Vision Statement </span></a>at the beginning of your plan to set the stage.</p>
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<h3><strong><span style="color: #800000;"><em>A quick market assessment, a marketing plan, a management approach and/or team lineup, an operational outline and a financial plan and projections &#8212; that all answer the questions: Who? What? When? Where? Why? and How? (and that are realistic, specific, flexible, and due-dated) will do the trick.</em></span></strong><strong>    </strong></h3>
<h6><strong>                                                                                                           </strong></h6>
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<h3 style="padding-left: 30px;"><strong>Is this over-simplified? </strong></h3>
<h6><strong>                                                                     </strong></h6>
<p><strong>No. It&#8217;s actually very simple</strong>. An <a href="http://www.halalpiar.com/2010/06/recovery-from-screw-ups/"><span style="color: #0000ff;">Entrepreneurial Action Plan </span></a>is simple and quick to execute. It is not a formal business plan. Many of the same ingredients are in both, but business plans are primarily done for the purpose of raising investor or lender money. Action Plans are to get things going, and build momentum; they are not fancy.</p>
<h6>                                                           </h6>
<h3 style="padding-left: 30px;"><strong>An Entrepreneurial Action Plan can be scribbled on the back of a large envelope.</strong></h3>
<h6><strong>                                                                      </strong></h6>
<p><strong>It is definitely not for the feint-hearted </strong>crossed-t-dotted-i perfectionists or analysis-paralysis corporate types. The best results come from those who chunk up their plans and adjust them frequently. This doesn&#8217;t take thousands of hours or a rocket science degree. Oh, and what a great amnd illuminating collection the saved scribbles make.</p>
<h6>                                                                     </h6>
<h3 style="padding-left: 30px;"><strong>BUT your Action Plan does need to capture.</strong></h3>
<h6 style="padding-left: 30px;"><strong>                                                           </strong></h6>
<p><strong>It needs to capture <a href="http://www.halalpiar.com/2009/05/the-5-ws-breed-problems-how-solves-them/"><span style="color: #0000ff;">the five &#8220;W&#8221; questions </span></a>and one &#8220;H&#8221; question above,</strong> and it does need to target goals that are realistic, specific, flexible, and due-dated. Otherwise, you are captaining a rudderless ship in a storm, and are bound to have schools of lawyers circling you, closing in for the kill.</p>
<h6>                                                                                      </h6>
<h3 style="padding-left: 30px;"><strong>Yes, put it in your pocket, not a spiral-bound or 3-ring binder.</strong></h3>
<h6><strong>                                                                         </strong></h6>
<p><strong>It&#8217;s a working document </strong>for the day, week, or month. I do daily scribbled Action Plans for each blog post. I do weekly versions for my writing/consulting/marketing business. In the end, it&#8217;s all about why you are an entrepreneur in the first place . . . to <a href="http://www.halalpiar.com/2011/03/startups-and-expansions/"><span style="color: #0000ff;">make your idea work by exercising the freedom to continually adjust it.</span></a></p>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 07 Aug 2011 01:45:42 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Hal Alpiar</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Welcome, and thank you                           for joining me on this                           personal milestone of                        1,000 posts at this site.                                                               Before I take you on my quick-read path of lessons learned, which I unabashedly believe includes something of value for everyone, let me offer up my heartfelt appreciation for the first 400 visits I [...]]]></description>
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<h6 style="text-align: center;"><strong><span style="color: #800000;">                          </span></strong></h6>
<h1 style="text-align: center;"><strong><span style="color: #800000;">for joining me on this </span></strong></h1>
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<h1 style="text-align: center;"><strong><span style="color: #800000;">personal milestone of </span></strong></h1>
<h6 style="text-align: center;"><strong><span style="color: #800000;">                     </span></strong></h6>
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<h1 style="text-align: center;"><strong><span style="color: #800000;"> </span></strong></h1>
<h6 style="text-align: center;">                                                           </h6>
<p><strong>Before I take you on my quick-read path of lessons learned</strong>, which I unabashedly believe includes something of value for everyone, let me offer up my heartfelt appreciation for the first 400 visits I had in April of 2008 when I started, and the millions of visitors who followed over the last 3+ years.</p>
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<h1 style="text-align: center;"><strong> </strong></h1>
<h2 style="text-align: center;"><strong>Thank you </strong></h2>
<h3 style="text-align: center;"><strong>for your confidence, </strong></h3>
<h3 style="text-align: center;"><strong>trust and loyal support</strong>.</h3>
<h6><strong>                                                                </strong></h6>
<p><strong>Special thanks to Kathy</strong> &#8212; the wind beneath my wings for 25 years, and to the wonderful dogs we&#8217;ve been blessed with, who surrounded my feet as I posted each night &#8212; our Black Cocker (<a href="http://www.halalpiar.com/2010/03/business-as-usual-suspended-for-today/"><span style="color: #0000ff;">&#8220;</span></a><a href="http://www.halalpiar.com/2010/03/business-as-usual-suspended-for-today/"><span style="color: #0000ff;">Tuckerton</span></a>&#8220;) who left us last year at 6 years old and our Golden Retriever (<a href="http://www.halalpiar.com/2010/09/teenage-trooper/"><span style="color: #0000ff;">&#8220;Barnegat</span></a><span style="text-decoration: underline;">&#8220;</span>) who lived six months longer than him; she was 13 . . . and our new one-year-old-this-week Cavachon <a href="http:http://www.halalpiar.com/2011/05/the-first-states-cutest-patriot///">(<span style="color: #0000ff;">&#8220;Breezy</span></a><span style="color: #0000ff;">&#8220;</span>).</p>
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<p style="text-align: center;"><strong>Thank you </strong>also to the young men and women of <a href="http://www.halalpiar.com/2011/05/8-words-for-this-weekend-and-all-year-round/"><span style="color: #0000ff;">America&#8217;s military service </span></a>whose devotion and courage make the freedom possible that allows me to choose to write, and to be able to write freely.</p>
<h3 style="text-align: center;"><strong>. . . and thank you, God!</strong></h3>
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<h2><strong> </strong></h2>
<h2><strong>Here is some of what I learned that you may find helpful to be reminded of . . . to think about . . . to try, apply, expand, adjust, enjoy, and to just pick up and run with:</strong></h2>
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<h3>1) <strong> <span style="color: #800000;">Never assume that no one </span></strong><span style="color: #800000;"><em>(or that no one who matters)</em><strong> is &#8220;out there.&#8221;</strong></span></h3>
<p style="text-align: center;">When you write and post something on the Internet, someone, somewhere, is always reading what you write . . . <em>every</em> thing you write! So <a href="http://www.halalpiar.com/2011/06/you-have-86400-seconds/"><span style="color: #0000ff;">make it count</span></a>.</p>
<h3 style="text-align: left;"><span style="color: #800000;"><span style="color: #000000;">2)</span><strong>  Be gracious with your insults.</strong></span></h3>
<p style="text-align: center;"><a href="http://www.halalpiar.com/wp-admin/http://www.halalpiar.com/2010/10/criticize-behavior///"><span style="color: #0000ff;">Criticize the behavior </span></a>&#8211;words and actions&#8211; <em>not the person! </em>When you feel you must take someone&#8217;s behavior to task, take it to task, but try to &#8220;sleep on&#8221; what you write before you click <em>Publish.</em></p>
<h3><span style="color: #800000;"><span style="color: #000000;">3)</span><strong>  Take lots of deep breaths. </strong></span></h3>
<p style="text-align: center;"><a href="http://www.halalpiar.com/2009/05/4-steps-in-one-minute-zero-stress/"><span style="color: #0000ff;">More frequent deep breathing </span></a>will channel stress productively, to stay in control, to be focused on the &#8220;here-and-now&#8221; present as much as possible, to ensure that you re<em>spond</em> instead of re<em>act</em>. Remember, if you don&#8217;t react, you can never <em>over</em>-react!</p>
<h3 style="text-align: left;"><span style="color: #800000;"><span style="color: #000000;">4) </span><strong> Be kinder than necessary </strong></span></h3>
<p style="text-align: center;"><span style="color: #0000ff;"> </span><a href="http://www.halalpiar.com/2008/12/bosses-spouses-and-salespeople/"><span style="color: #0000ff;"><em>EVERY</em>one you meet and re-meet every day is fighting <em>some</em> kind of battle.</span></a></p>
<h3><span style="color: #800000;"><span style="color: #000000;">5)</span><strong>  &#8221;A lie can travel halfway around the world while <a href="http://www.halalpiar.com/2011/05/creative-risk-being-unliked/"><span style="color: #0000ff;">the truth </span></a>is still putting on its shoes.&#8221; </strong></span></h3>
<p style="text-align: center;"><em>(Thank you Mark Twain) </em></p>
<h3 style="text-align: left;"><span style="color: #800000;"><span style="color: #000000;">6)</span><strong>  &#8220;The difference between the almost right word and the right word is really a large matter&#8211;&#8217;tis the difference between the lightning-bug and the lightning.&#8221; </strong> </span></h3>
<p style="text-align: center;"><em>(<a href="http://www.halalpiar.com/2008/05/mark-twain-said/"><span style="color: #0000ff;">Thank you again Mark Twain</span></a>)</em></p>
<h3 style="text-align: left;">7)<strong>  <span style="color: #800000;">&#8220;Time waits for no one. Yesterday is history. Tomorrow is mystery. Today is a gift. That&#8217;s why it&#8217;s called the present.&#8221; </span></strong></h3>
<p style="text-align: center;"><strong> </strong><em>(Thank you <a href="http://www.halalpiar.com/2011/06/i-almost-died/"><span style="color: #0000ff;">B. Olatunji</span></a>)</em></p>
<h3>8) <strong> <span style="color: #800000;">As</span><span style="color: #800000;">k yourself the following 4 questions: </span></strong></h3>
<p style="text-align: center;"><strong> </strong><a href="http://www.halalpiar.com/2008/05/mark-twain-said/"><span style="color: #0000ff;"><em>Why?</em>  Why <em>Not</em>?  Why Not <em>Me?</em>  Why Not </span></a><span style="color: #0000ff;"><em><a href="http://www.halalpiar.com/2008/05/mark-twain-said/">Now?</a> </em></span>A few times a day is not a bad idea.</p>
<h3 style="text-align: left;"><span style="color: #800000;"><span style="color: #000000;">9)</span></span><strong><span style="color: #800000;">  Accept the fact that the news media no longer &#8220;reports&#8221; <em>any</em>thing. </span></strong></h3>
<p style="text-align: center;"><strong><span style="color: #800000;"><span style="color: #000000;">Literally </span>e</span></strong><span style="color: #000000;">very story breaks down into some stress-filled level of disguised political opinion. If you think that&#8217;s exaggeration, try testing your willpower to not watch or listen to or read any news or news-related presentations of <em>any</em> kind <em>for just one week,</em> then see and feel the results. <em><strong>You will be happier</strong>, healthier, less-stressed, more productive, and <a href="http://www.halalpiar.com/2009/09/how-big-is-your-business-heart/"><span style="color: #0000ff;">making a bigger difference in the world</span></a>, especially if you combine this effort with #3 above. (<strong>3</strong> weeks of it, by the way, will literally transform your life!) </em></span></p>
<h3>10)<strong>  <span style="color: #800000;">&#8220;To Thine Own Self Be True!&#8221;  </span></strong></h3>
<p><strong><span style="color: #800000;">                                        </span></strong><span style="color: #800000;"> (</span><span style="color: #800000;"><em><a href="http://www.halalpiar.com/2011/07/be-your-own-hero/"><span style="color: #0000ff;">Authenticity</span></a><span style="color: #0000ff;"> + Passion = Success)</span></em></span></p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><span style="color: #000000;"><em>(Thank you, Shakespeare)</em></span></p>
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<h3 style="padding-left: 30px;">   11)<strong>  <span style="color: #800000;">&#8220;There is <a href="http://www.halalpiar.com/2010/09/business-diplomacy/"><span style="color: #0000ff;">a time for everything </span></a>under heaven.&#8221; </span></strong></h3>
<p style="text-align: center;"><span style="color: #000000;"><em>(Thank you, God)</em></span></p>
<h3 style="text-align: left; padding-left: 30px;">   12)<strong>  <span style="color: #800000;">&#8220;Open Minds Open Doors.&#8221; </span></strong></h3>
<p style="text-align: center;"><span style="color: #000000;"><em>(Thank you <a href="http://www.halalpiar.com/2009/06/continental-airlines-united-technologies-lessons-for-small-business/"><span style="color: #0000ff;">United Technologies</span></a>)</em></span></p>
<h3 style="text-align: left; padding-left: 30px;">   13)<strong>  <span style="color: #800000;">&#8220;The <a href="http://www.halalpiar.com/2009/05/positive-attitudes-breed-discovery/"><span style="color: #0000ff;">journey to discovery </span></a></span></strong><span style="color: #0000ff;"><strong>consists not in having </strong></span><span style="color: #000000;"><strong><span style="color: #800000;">new landscapes, but in having new eyes.&#8221; </span></strong></span></h3>
<p style="text-align: center;"><span style="color: #000000;"><em>(Thank you Proust)</em></span></p>
<h3 style="padding-left: 30px;">    14)<strong>  <span style="color: #800000;">&#8220;The only thing that&#8217;s permanent is change.&#8221; </span></strong></h3>
<p style="text-align: center;"><em>(<a href="http://www.halalpiar.com/2010/07/staying-on-top/"><span style="color: #0000ff;">Thank you Greek philosopher Hericlitus</span></a>, 2500 years ago)</em></p>
<h3 style="text-align: left; padding-left: 30px;">    15)<strong>  <span style="color: #800000;">&#8220;<a href="http://www.halalpiar.com/2011/06/happiness-wins/"><span style="color: #0000ff;">Happiness</span></a> is a journey, not a destination.&#8221;</span></strong><span style="color: #000000;"><em> </em></span></h3>
<p style="text-align: center;"><span style="color: #000000;"><em>(Thank you Alfred Souza)</em></span></p>
<h3 style="text-align: left; padding-left: 30px;"><span style="color: #000000;">    16)<em>  </em><strong><span style="color: #800000;">Great blog posts only happen because of great blog followers.</span></strong> </span></h3>
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<h2 style="text-align: center;"><strong><span style="color: #000000;">If you like what I write, thank your <em>self </em>because I write it only for you, and only with your input. I am grateful for your every visit. </span></strong></h2>
<h2 style="text-align: center;"><strong><span style="color: #000000;">Have a wonderful week ahead, filled with everything you want. </span></strong></h2>
<h3 style="text-align: center; padding-left: 30px;"><span style="color: #000000;"><em>Best regards &#8211; Hal</em></span></h3>
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